my mum said to me:
“if people put a bad perception at you, re-think again what you’ve done. change your attitude and then prove them wrong.”

we are not perfect. and people will always put negative perceptions at us. no need to take it seriously, that’s a douche’s doing. ignore it, yes you can. ignore it, but don’t take it too lightly. just sit back and ask, “”why people call me like that?”. it’s a usual thing people give bad names to us. for example, bitch/slut/spoiled brat/no future/etc,etc. ask that question to yourself. and if you have found the answer, say this, “i’m gonna prove y’all wrong. i’m gonna prove all you motherfuckers are wrong”. change your attitude and prove them wrong. you are better than what is said by them. change, don’t just talk about it. if you take it lightly to what they are saying/just ignore it, shame on you. God may wants to show you the right path, by making you think at the difference perspective about those perceptions, but you closed your eyes, brain, ears to it. pity. you’re just as same as the monkeys.